I have received several offers to adopt a baby. So far, the answer mmg "no". We both agreed on this answer.
Yesterday, my BFF, a doctor asked me whether I berminat to adopt a baby, M'sian parents. Mom is 25 years old, an executive, pakai tudung...expected to give birth in April, 2010. She is my BFF's patient.
I wanted to say yes this time. The last time when we saw a baby girl by the name of Umairah, Shahrul mcm terbuka sikit hati to adopt her; I said "no". This time my other half said "no"...I think in future there will be no question of whether we wanna adopt or not coz the answer will be "no"
My BFF will ask another friend who is also childless...whom I am so confident will love the baby with all her heart...
How do I feel about this?
I'm not really sad coz I was kind of expected the answer "no" from Shahrul. My parents are definitely against the idea. I believe they know me & love me, they know whats best for me...
Yesterday, my BFF, a doctor asked me whether I berminat to adopt a baby, M'sian parents. Mom is 25 years old, an executive, pakai tudung...expected to give birth in April, 2010. She is my BFF's patient.
I wanted to say yes this time. The last time when we saw a baby girl by the name of Umairah, Shahrul mcm terbuka sikit hati to adopt her; I said "no". This time my other half said "no"...I think in future there will be no question of whether we wanna adopt or not coz the answer will be "no"
My BFF will ask another friend who is also childless...whom I am so confident will love the baby with all her heart...
How do I feel about this?
I'm not really sad coz I was kind of expected the answer "no" from Shahrul. My parents are definitely against the idea. I believe they know me & love me, they know whats best for me...
3 comments:
salam...
Satu isu perkara yg harus difikir secara serius, terutama melibatkan masa depan org yg disayangi.
Saya secara peribadi, saya bersikap neutral. Bagi saya jantina anak menjadi faktor utama selain beberapa faktor yg pasti telah bermain di kepala.
Dapatkan petunjuk Allah sekiranya secara dasar berminat. Biar Allah membimbing hati dan akal membuat satu keputusan yg terbaik.
Di tahun Hijrah yg baru ini, mungkin mencipta sebuah sejarah yg mencorak masa depan yg lebih baik.
Anak siapa?
Kat rumah ni ada 4 orang, tak berkenan ke??? hehehe ...
Salam..
Just to share related article on zuriat dan tuntutan Allah.. di sini..
http://www.fuadlatip.com/v1/2009/05/tuntutan-allah/
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