Friday, December 10, 2010

Dont Judge A Nenek...

...by her kain batik basahan...

Before cuti sek, Yanti, one of our transporters repeatedly told me yg sorang nenek ni nak suruh pick up her cucu from Q-dees next year. Nenek tu nak masukkan her cucu di Q-dees. Yanti tak boleh fetch cucu nenek tu coz next year schedule dia dah lain. Told Yanti not to worry coz we have other transporters, some more nenek tu tak dtg register pun lg cucu dia.

I totally forgot about that nenek, until Teacher Aishah, passed me a RM50 note & said, 'Kak Emy, ada nenek jual nasi lemak tepi rumah babysitter anak Aishah bg RM50, dia suruh book tpt utk cucu dia". I told Aishah, I would go see that Nenek later & tell her about our fees.

Dont get me wrong. I tak memilih customers. When I 1st started, bila I showed parents our prog, ada yg teruja but bila tengok fees, ada yg mcm frust je. It was kinda sad bila tengok muka mereka berubah. So, masuk 2nd year sampai sekrg, when parents call, I terus trg let them know our fees for a year. Kalau they feel they can afford, diaorg akan dtg, so mostly yg dtg, yg mmg can afford, just nak lebih meyakinkan diri mereka dgn pilihan yg akan dibuat, also nak tengok anak diaorg suka ke tak. 

10 minutes later, a nenek, bears an uncanny resemblance to my late grandma, dgn pakai kain batik basahan was outside the gate. She told me dia dtg nak confirm register cucu dia. Dia mula story, cucu dia dulu gi sek tu....adalah yg dia tak berkenan. I told her straightforward that our fees are slightly higher than her cucu's previous kindy. She insisted nak tengok fees.

Dlm sembang2, I asked nenek tu anak dia kerja apa? Tukang masak, she said while her eyes still scrutinising our fees.

"Sama mcm tahun lepas", she said suddenly. I was taken aback.

"Makcik pernah dtg tahun lepas?"

"Pernah"

She put me to shame - dia tidak pernah menjejakkan kaki ke universiti, what more Faculty of Law, UM, dia tidak pernah jd peguam, she's only a nasi lemak seller, she's 63 yo but ingatan dia lebih kuat dr saya.

Mind you, dia juga tahu fees other kindies around our area yg saya sendiri tak tau.

Dia sambung lg,

"Kalau anak makcik taknak byr pun, makcik boleh byr"

My teachers & I looked @ each other in disbelief. Dlm hati tertanya-tanya "from income jual nasi lemak?"

She could read our mind

"O, makcik bukan jual nasi lemak je, makcik ada tanah kat kpg yg makcik pajak kat car wash. Sebulan boleh dpt income RMx,xxx".

Haha...jgn marah, ckp org putih lg makcik ni.

Nenek ini, I believe tidak pernah baca buku Robert Kiyosaki or other financial books or attend financial seminars mcm saya, she may never heard of passive income, but her passive income lebih byk dr gaji saya.

So, I gave her a copy of our fees schedule & my card, asking her to show it to her daughter & son in law. Convinced her that if she changes her mind, I hv no problems refunding the RM50 to her. Its my policy to refund any amount of deposit paid to us if customers change their mind.

Dia sambung lg,

"Insya allah boleh byr coz anak makcik baru je naik pangkat jd Asst Manager kat O*e W*rld Hotel & menantu makcik chef kat hotel yg sama".

OMG! When she said tukang masak, what was on my mind - tukang masak kat restoran tomyam...

Moral of the story...dont be fooled by a nenek's kain batik basahan, she may earn more than u...

8 comments:

kay_leeda said...

Once at a property carnival we met this one kakak. Sempoi je....pakai baju kurung biasa-biasa je. She was interested to make a booking on the property which was up for sale. I ingatkan dia tersilap masuk show room ke hapa. Tau-tau dia gi kat sales person tu, pointed at the lot she wanted and asked if she could pay CASH for the property! Semua orang nganga. Kita baru nak swipe credit card, dia dah langsai bayar for the property!!!!

Memang lah jangan under estimate mereka-mereka yg sempoi looking nih.

saudah said...

true kak emy.

yang pakai selebet,bila keluar wallt, berkepuk duit dlm tu sampai ada notes sampai terkeluar-keluar dari money slot. bukan not biru kecik tau, ungu semata dalam tu.

the principal said...

my cousin, boss Les Copaque tu, before they were famous dgn Upin Ipin, went to Naza Motors kat Kpg Baru naik motor Kriss. Takde sapa nak layan. Then came a new staff, young chap attended to them. Jgn marah, they bought kereta canggih, that guy punye komisyen je RM22K...

Hari tu dtg my parents' hse kat Kpg Bukit Beruang, Melaka bwk ferrari RM2.2M cash. Terkejut my parents dgr ada org sanggup beli kereta sebegitu mahal

Yanti Arshad said...

emy,

you shud see Ananda Krishnan, big bos Astro. Kalau u tak kenal dia, sure u ingat dia pekerja Alam Flora. :-)

JALAN REBUNG said...

mdm,

kim salam kat nenek tu ye ...saya sangat kagum ..lepas ni kalau jumpa nenek-nenek kat mana-mana pun persepsi saya akan berubah ...ada no tepon nenek tu tak ...hehehehe

Anonymous said...

Tukang masak kedai tomyam gaji mahal tau...never underestimate people....

the principal said...

anonymous,

every human being, sedar/tak sedar akan buat kesilapan yg sama; judging others from the clothes they wear, the handbag they carry, the house they stay in...every now & then. Me no exception

this post is a reminder to me not to judge people coz kdg2 I tend to forget

zaitgha said...

Love this post Mam, mmg kita manusia biasa always live with perceptions yg kita dah build in our mind.....so kita kena buat paradigm shift lah kan......love that nenek .....